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Just to throw out an idea on your Stance wheelbase, since the truck has the servo on the front axle, could you not shorten the front links a bit since you do not have to worry about a panhard bar or resultant bumpsteer from messing with the front link length? This would shift the weight slightly forward which is desired in more competition crawling vehicles, up to a point at least, and even in a capable trail rig.
Shortening the wheelbase will help with breakover but hurt climbing. Shortening the front and the weight moving forward a bit could counter some of the climbing loss from the shorter wheelbase.
I don't have a Stance to know if there are other clearance issues that would arise though. Shortening either end could result in needing to shorten your driveshaft or adjust upper shock mounting locations. Unlikely with small adjustments but something to be aware of.
Also, I'd suggest waiting until you have stuff in front of you before ordering stuff to make adjustments if at all possible. It can save you some money and aggravation and a drawer full of parts that aren't quite right. But if your patience is like mine then you will have a drawer full of not quite right parts and a hope to find a use for them in the future.