Mike Flea
I wanna be Dave
why is it so hard to find a decent woman in my city!
im 27 and ready to settle down and have kids, but all im finding are women who are done having kids or dont want them! im a decent looking guy and im not trying for out of my league type women, im not dumb lol. but jeez give a guy a chance.
everything is a f**king game these days, i cant seem to do anything right.
i guess what bugs me the most is that ive achieved every goal ive set in my life so far and having no control over finding a woman for marriage and children hurts. not only am i dealing with that on my own, i have to deal with family looking at me and asking if im gay or why havent i had kids yet at family get togethers etc.
if they only knew that my cousin trapped her current husband by telling him she was on birth control or my other cousin who is marrying his baby mama cuz its cheaper to keep'er or the infidelity that goes on! but God forbid i want to do things "right" by courting a woman and building a life together so on and so forth.
i try to keep my head up and stay positive but sometimes its hard!
Relax and quit trying so hard. Become a regular at a local bar, let people get to know you, build a trust, become dependable.
I'm 59, never had any luck with chicks when I was younger. Now that I'm older, married 27 years today, they flock to me, fortunately the wife's not a bar fly so she doesn't see this, or she'd put the kibosh on me stopping after work. Now don't take this the wrong way, I'm not cheating on her, these women know I'm married, we're just friends.