"thumbsup" No problem, adding more flex is the first thing most new drivers want to do to their trucks! Shock oil, and shock rebound is a tuners preference thing. I would suggest getting 20w, 25w and 30w oils to start with. I think your truck probably has 30w straight from the factory. I think that your issue is more a droop issue than shock oil which can be adjusted with adjuster ring on your shocks. I run must all my crawlers with at least 50% droop, it gets the COG a little lower. Hope that helps answer your questions. This topic is one of those where if you ask ten different people what they think, your going to get ten different answers. "thumbsup"
I see you got your tires and wheels this morning, we must have a direct line through the post office, because that was fast. I'll send you some info on what I sent you. ;-)
Ernie