Thank you kindly, Jim. Your support is greatly appreciated. And you hit the nail on the head. Many times we get so used to the status quo. But life is about growth and about challenges and digging deep into our character and resources when push comes to shove. Sometimes we make changes on our own accord and sometimes changes are forced upon us. It's certainly a gut-punch right now but we simply have to keep moving fwd one day at a time. Hard to see the forest through the trees right now but I've persevered through uncertainty before as has my wife and we'll just have to get there again... one way or another. Nothing is ever a given in life but life is indeed worth fighting for. Right now I'm just grateful that my wife won't have to endure the insurmountable demands and hostility that she has been subjected to over the course of recent years. That's the victory for today. Next week or next month it'll be something else. Gotta keep going.So sorry to hear hpd, life sucks at times but reading through yer post ... I'm sure you'll both be better for it in the long run All the best to you both