OH, and one more rant for the day.
I live diagonal from a gas station/convenience store. Comes in handy, that's for sure. Anyway, I'm out mowing my grass and I notice a newer Nissan sitting right on the white line along the road in the middle of the gas station parking lot with it's doors open and the hood up. I didn't think much of it, but kept an eye on it. After a few passes with the tractor, I notice an older couple sitting in the car, and the hood is still up. In a really bad spot too, people are whipping around them doing 60 in a 35 as usual. Being neighborly and somewhat knowledgeable about cars I shut off the mower, played frogger with traffic and walked over to see if I could help..at least move the car so they wouldn't be right on the road and in the way of gas station traffic.
Turns out it was a senior couple and the throttle was stuck wide open. They shut the car down after a bit of a wild ride and coasted to a stop and were afraid to try and move it. They had called AAA, but who knows how long they'll be. Making a long story short, we didn't try to move the car - the transmission wouldn't go into N without the engine running, and he didn't want to chance it. I offered to get some tools and disconnect the battery hoping it would reset the car's computer and maybe help, but he didn't want to drive it at all - he was too worried about the throttle. So I offered for them to come over and sit in my living room....it was 100 or so out - not great weather for seniors. The AC was on at home, they could see their car from the living room, and watch for the AAA guy. They politely declined not wanted to impose, so I left the invitation open for them and decided to go back to mowing.
As I was leaving, the husband got out of the car and put out his hand. I asked was he sure he wanted to shake hands given the current state of affairs, and he said absolutely - it was earned and thank you. About 100 cars had whipped around them in the past 45 minutes, bypassed them or beeped and not one single person stopped and asked if they needed help.
Not one.
When did this happen? This is only the most recent event, but I have a few more similar stories since I'm that guy that always stops. I was raised to believe you help people if you can, and it seems that we've really lost that along the way somewhere. Right around the time cell phones came into popularity I reckon. Or maybe it's just life in the northeast, IDK.
/end rant/
Major props to your compassion for those in need - it's a real pet peeve of mine when people blithely go through their lives without a care in the world for anyone other than themselves. I've stopped more times than I could count for people in dangerous situations and done my best to help out.
One time there was one of those maid services cars (I think it was Merry Maid) stopped in the middle lane, rush hour traffic, downtown Austin on IH35 - car wouldn't start... I was heading home from work on my motorbike and pulled to the shoulder, jumped off my bike and weaved through the slow-moving traffic until I got to the car - tried to find out what was wrong, turns out neither of the 2 ladies inside spoke English.
I got them to put it in neutral and pushed the car (a small hatchback, thank goodness!) to the shoulder, doing my best to ignore all the honking and yelling from red-faced assholes pissed off about us being in their way. Made sure they had a cellphone and were reaching out for some sort of roadside assistance, went on my way.
Just on that particular stretch of IH35 that runs right through the center of Austin, I've stopped 3-4 times to render aid - once on Christmas Eve, just before midnight. Never understood people that just ignore it when it's obvious that someone needs help.